Marriage
to a Russian?Inna's view!
Russian women, Sochi Russian women
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Here are some honest opinions you are NOT going to find on other marriage
websites who are just looking for your money, singing a sweet and
silly song for you about Russian women. So forgive us up front, we're
going to be frank and maybe start you on the best experience of your
life; finding that woman of your dreams to share the rest of your
life.
1. Be honest in all ways with these women. These magnificent women are beautiful because of the quality within. Their beauty is a reflection of who they are and they are very intelligent and understanding. They will be close friends for you, but they must trust you. Don't leave anything out for "later" when you know each other better. Trust is the pivotal thing for all these women. Look at the leap of faith they must make to come to you. Give them every reason to trust you. And don't play with feelings, or to mislead these women. Do you fear that these women are insincere, gold diggers? They are absolutely NOT - they are real, just like your mother or sister and they do not want to come here and dig themselves into a hole that the family will never get out of. Some of these women came to the Sochi office day after day to see Inna, crying with hope that she will find them a KIND, HONEST, CARING MAN who will take care of them and their future FAMILY. These are not not not empty words to these women, it is the core of who a Russian woman is. IT is exactly why she cannot stay in Russia, she is driven to love, and nurture and devote herself to a family. That is simply not possible for most women in Russia today. That is why they look to you. Simply be honest with yourself and think of what you really want in 10 years, or 20 years with this woman, your wife, your best friend, the mother to your children. This, my friend, is why she is coming. 2. If you are a single father and the children live with you, don't mislead the woman you may be writing in Sochi, thinking they won't want a man with children. These beautiful Sochi women have strong positive feelings about children and will adore you more for your children. On the other hand, you will probably be happiest with a women old enough to be able to handle children. Perhaps you might want to look at women with children who are a bit more mature rather than an 18 - 20 year old. 3. Many Russian Bride websites say it doesn't matter what you have or what you own or how old you.. They say that the women are so poor in Russia that they will think any income in the US is a fortune. THIS IS NOT TRUE! Russian women are going to have to trust you when they make the largest single leap in their lives. They love their country, their city, and their families. They are coming for you, and they are coming for their children if they have them, or for the children they will have with you. They do not want to come to be destitute. If you are barely making it in the US, the truth is that you're not a better choice than the men they could choose in Russia. At least there they have the support of their families. I'm sorry, I know these are hard words to hear, but the problems you will get into if you believe all the sweet lies of these other bride sites are worse. If you want the quality of family life you can achieve with them; quality that is simply not part of most American relationships in the US anymore, you must provide the equivalent on your side. You must be a man and take care of the family. This means a good moderate income, some assets, at least a future. A Russian wife is not a slave, she will be a friend like nothing you have ever seen and she will help you be successful. First do your part. We believe the failures of US marriages are largely mirrored in the man and the woman. Western cultures foster an attitude of light commitments. This is one of the main complaints we hear from Russian women about American men, that they are all passion and commitment for a very short time, then at the first difficulty we are gone, or threatening to send them back to Russia. Russian women simply don't have a model for that experience in their life or historical culture. Family and responsibility are not subject to the weather report of your current feelings of love for your woman. Family is separate and not under attack as it so often is here. They are in for the long haul. Marriage is serious business for them. If you're not solvent, you will not do well. So there it is, the
opposite of all the lies most sites would have you believe. How
happy any Russian woman would be just to get a green card. They
are just telling you what they think you want to hear. It's part
of the same lie that says they want to marry men 35 years older
than them. What we offer is a chance at a REAL relationship not
a pack of lies geared to sell fantasies that will never be more
than that. Note - from Inna (7-30-00) Honesty must go two ways to be real. In the last six months we have had a few men clients come back from Sochi and write to say that they were disappointed with some of things they had to pay for while in Sochi. It seemed to them that if we purported to be so honest, why were they paying four dollars for a rose when they ordered them from us in the US, but here on the main street of Sochi they found some for $2.50? This complaint was mirrored for these few men in the prices of their room, their excursion costs, etc. While we are honest, and we want to continue to find good husbands for these women and good wives for you. We must make a profit in order to continue to do that. The ladies in Sochi can't pay anything, they have nothing. So who does that leave? You! We are absolutely upfront about costs. Yes, I admit it, I do not sell flowers at a loss. We make money on them, each and every one. We try to create a small profit in each and every thing we do. We are certainly the least expensive for delivered flowers in Russia on the internet. We do the least expensive simultaneous translation (for Full Members), and we have one of the cheapest email rates on the internet. So what made these men upset? I think it is because we all become so intimate in this process, that we learn so much about each man, and they about us. By the time they make a trip to Sochi they trust us so completely - that they feel we are breaking the "friendship" contract by making any profit from them. So I want to make it clear, we are in business to make money for the hard work and long hours that we put in, and to supply the Sochi office with money to keep them going - to keep attracting quality women and making the Sochi trip a peak experience for the men who travel there. So if you don't want to take an excursion, if you can make your own way from the airports to other flights, buy your own flowers, we have no problem with that. In return I hope you can forgive us, my friends, for making $1.50 on a rose that I have to have delivered 10,000 miles away. This doesn't mean that Inna and I don't care about you. It means that Inna and I care not ONLY about you, but all the women still in Sochi, women who are waiting for their future husband, their children's future father, to come for them. These women need us to continue; so many came to the office while I was there last month, to reassure themselves that we were working in their behalf. Why? Because they had not gotten a single letter. That's why I have NO problem in reaching in your pocket for that buck fifty. Inna and I believe you can afford that rose. Enough about this. Read what a recent customer had to say about us! Inna
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