Dear Inna,

I understand the skepticism of prospective clients who are considering
joining and going to a foreign country. I had some similar feelings but a
good part can be answered by reading all of your articles versus looking at pictures.

I recently talked to a man you referred to me and we spoke for
about an hour. I understand skepticism, being a retired L.A. police
officer they do not make a much more cynical version of male than me.

But after going through the net and seeing so many companies with copied
pictures I stumbled across some articles in papers that spoke of what one
should look for in a company. Your set up passed and answered all the
questions and I found it to be more than acceptable. I heard an interesting
comment from the man I spoke too and he stated," I find it hard to believe
that you can fall in love so quickly!"

His point is very valid for American thought trends in this era. But, going
back to one of your articles is to understand that the lovely ladies over
there function more in a 1940's era American woman. They want to have a good relationship and family value system with a traditional and "responsible" male. As you know that is not going to happen over there so some (not all) of the ladies are taking the risk of going out of there comfort zone which is a huge step. I do not believe we as men can understand that until we go and see things as they are. Men must realize these woman are doing something many of their friends are afraid to do. That is to give up everything they hold dear in order to raise a traditional household. It is almost like war time conditions without the war and meeting one's true love. Somewhat akin to meeting a wife during World War II and bringing back a foreign bride. Of course one can always stay in the U.S. and stumble across people with some unreal value systems. The choice is ultimately theirs.

I hope this can clarify some issues for men who are afraid or skeptical. I
met men from many parts of the world while I was in Sochi and much like Ron in your engaged section we were all looking for the same thing and when we found it none of us wanted to leave! These woman are the real deal.

Sincerely,
Mark M.